Wellness is dead. Long live well-being.

Wellness has become a buzzword, a hashtag and a multi-trillion-dollar industry. In the process, we lost its soul. It is time to declare "wellness" dead and bring back what actually matters: our well-being.

The difference in one sentence: wellness, as it is sold today, is something an individual buys and performs; well-being is how a whole life is going, relationships, purpose and rest included.

The size of the industry is not an exaggeration. The Global Wellness Institute values the wellness economy at $6.8 trillion in 2024, double its size in 2013, and projects nearly $9.8 trillion by 2029 (GWI, 2025).

If buying wellness made us well, we would be the healthiest people in history. Instead, many of us feel more tired, anxious and alone than all that spending would suggest. Something in the word has broken.

How wellness was captured

The modern word began as a public-health idea, not a product line. In the late 1950s Halbert Dunn, a US government statistician, gave a series of talks on "high-level wellness," published as a book in 1961. His point was that health should mean more than not being sick: it should mean people functioning at their potential within the environment where they live. Family, work, community and society were part of his picture from the start.

Sixty years later, that environment has dropped out. Wellness now usually means something an individual buys and performs: a supplement stack, a cold plunge, a €120 leggings set, a retreat, a ring that scores your sleep. The unit of wellness shrank from society to the self, and then from the self to the shopping basket.

Three forces did the shrinking:

• Marketing. "Wellness" is a largely unregulated word. Almost any product can carry it, from collagen gummies to scented candles, without proving any benefit.
• Aesthetics. On social media, wellness is a look: lean bodies, beige kitchens, morning routines that start before dawn. What photographs well gets promoted; what helps quietly, like a phone call with a friend, does not.
• Individualism. If health is your personal project, then poor health becomes your personal failure. The stress of long hours, insecure work or isolation becomes something you are told to fix with a better morning routine.

The result is a word that sells everything and promises nothing. The wellness tax puts a price on that gap, receipt by receipt.

What well-being actually asks of us

Well-being is not a product category. It describes how a life is going, not what is in your bathroom cabinet. And the research on what makes lives go well points away from the shop.

Connection comes first. A meta-analysis of 148 studies covering more than 300,000 people found that those with stronger social relationships had a 50% higher likelihood of survival over the study periods. The authors concluded that the effect is comparable to well-established risk factors for death (Holt-Lunstad et al., PLOS Medicine, 2010).

Quality beats quantity. The Harvard Study of Adult Development has followed the same people since 1938. Its director, Robert Waldinger, says the biggest surprise was that what keeps people happy is also what keeps them healthy: close relationships, and above all their quality (Harvard Gazette, 2023). The study is observational, so it shows a strong link and not proof, but the pattern has held for more than 80 years.

Purpose and contribution matter. Feeling useful, belonging to something larger than yourself and having a reason to get up all appear repeatedly in well-being research. None of them can be shipped in two days.

These ingredients share three traits. They are slow, they are free or cheap, and they involve other people. That is precisely why the market struggles to sell them.

Wellness versus well-being

The difference is not the vocabulary. It is where the attention goes.

A manifesto for well-being

Declaring a word dead is easy. Living differently is the harder part. Here is what the shift looks like in practice.

• People before products. Before buying something to feel better, call someone. Eat with others more often than you photograph your meals.
• Belonging before branding. A choir, a running club, a volunteer shift or a neighbourhood group will probably do more for you than a premium membership.
• Purpose before polish. Ask what you are contributing, not only how you are optimising. Meaning is a health resource.
• Enough before more. Sleep, movement, decent food and rest are the basics. Most of what is sold on top is optional.
• Systems before self-blame. If your job, city or schedule is making you unwell, a new routine is not the fix. Name the cause, and push for change where you can.
• Slow before shiny. Real well-being builds over years. Be suspicious of anything that promises transformation in 30 days.
• Care that includes others. Your well-being is tied to the well-being of the people around you. Look after them, and let them look after you.

Where a massage directory stands in this

SEDINA lists massage venues, so it sits inside the economy this piece criticises, and it would be dishonest to pretend otherwise. A massage is a paid service. Sold as a transformation, a detox or a badge of status, it is wellness in exactly the sense above.

Booked for what it is, an hour of rest and skilled touch with a modest, honest expectation of feeling calmer afterwards, it belongs on the well-being side of the table: it costs time and attention, nobody sees it, and it rests on another person's care. That is the case made in why massage isn't a luxury and why booking one isn't selfish. It still does not replace sleep, friends or a doctor, and when self-care became a second job is about what happens when rest itself turns into a performance.

One honest warning

"Well-being" can be captured just as easily as "wellness." Brands and employers already use it in campaigns and benefits packages. The word itself will not protect us; the habits will. If a product, programme or influencer uses "well-being" while selling the same individual, aesthetic, buy-more model, the label has changed and nothing else has.

So let wellness, the hashtag, rest in peace. Long live well-being: the friends, the purpose, the community and the ordinary days that never trend but actually hold a life together.

Frequently asked questions

What is the difference between wellness and well-being?
As the words are used today, wellness is something an individual buys and performs: products, routines, trackers and treatments. Well-being describes how a whole life is going, including relationships, purpose, community and rest. Wellness is measured by how you look and what you track; well-being by how your life feels and functions over years.

How big is the wellness industry?
The Global Wellness Institute valued the global wellness economy at 6.8 trillion US dollars in 2024, about double its 2013 size, and projects close to 9.8 trillion by 2029. The figure covers everything from personal care and healthy eating to wellness tourism, fitness and spas.

Where does the word wellness come from?
In its modern sense it comes from Halbert Dunn, a US government statistician who lectured on "high-level wellness" in the late 1950s and published a book under that title in 1961. For Dunn, wellness meant a person functioning at their potential within their environment, so family, work and community were part of the idea from the start.

What actually improves well-being?
The most consistent finding is the quality of close relationships. A meta-analysis of 148 studies found that people with stronger social ties were about 50% more likely to be alive at follow-up, and the Harvard Study of Adult Development has linked warm relationships to health and happiness for more than 80 years. Purpose, contribution, sleep, movement and rest follow. Most of these are slow, cheap and involve other people.

Is a massage wellness or well-being?
It can be either. Sold as a transformation, a detox or a status purchase, it is wellness in the commercial sense. Booked as an hour of rest and skilled touch, with a modest and honest expectation of feeling calmer afterwards, it sits on the well-being side. It does not replace sleep, friends or a doctor.

Sources

• Global Wellness Institute (2025). 2025 Global Wellness Economy Monitor.
• Dunn H.L. (1961). High-Level Wellness. Arlington, VA: R.W. Beatty.
• Holt-Lunstad J., Smith T.B., Layton J.B. (2010). Social relationships and mortality risk: a meta-analytic review. PLOS Medicine.
• Harvard Gazette (2023). Interview with Robert Waldinger on the Harvard Study of Adult Development.

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